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Got a funny feeling that your lover is cheating... here are the sure signs.
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Know the signs of cheating when you see them people! These five signs of cheating will save you time and heartbreak.
1. Loss of Sex Drive
Unless they have another cause of stress (stress at work), then a sudden loss of interest in sex may mean your lover is getting it elsewhere.
2. Defensiveness
A cheating partner often feels guilty deep down and this guilt often comes out by them being very defensive or trying to blame you. Watch out for signs of aggressive behavior from your lover.
3. Excuses
They may seem cliche, but when they say they need to work late, have to take a business trip, or need to unexpectedly meet with a client, these can all be signs of cheating.
4. Telephone Hang-Ups
If your lover’s new freak partner is bold enough to call your home number, he or she may hang up if you answer, instead of your partner. Be on the look out for frequent hang-ups.
5. Gifts Out of Nowhere
Besides being defensive, your cheating partner may try to throw you off track by being extra nice. Flowers, chocolate, and other gifts, especially if they are out of the ordinary, could be signs of cheating.
Keep in mind that none of these signs are guarantees of that someone’s cheating on you. They are only signs, and the more of them you see, the higher the chances something is going on. Talk with your lover if you feel something is going on, and you'll give your relationship the best chance at surviving over the long run.
About Jenny Moore
Jenny Moore is a freelance writer for Torrance Insider Magazine. Each week she answers questions about dating & relationships. Jenny has been employed as a family counselor for over 5 years. She’s also an author and will be releasing her new book about relationships later this year.
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Posted on Aug 09, 2009 23:32pm by Jenny
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